Is It Okay for My Dog to Sleep with Me?

The ultimate answer to this question is generally no. But and that is a big but, there would be circumstances where a dog trainer would say that it is okay. Let me explain. If you have an older dog that has slept with you for years and you aren’t having any behavioral issues, then I would not disrupt the normal for that older dog. Behavioral issues range widely, and most people don’t even realize the dog is exhibiting negative behaviors. Those behaviors could be door dashing, separation anxiety, barking, nipping, attention seeking, space invading, food & toy stealing or hiding, leash pulling, no longer listening to you, destructiveness of things like furniture, bedding, shoes, door jams, etc. And these are only a few of the behaviors. If your dog is older and exhibiting any behaviors such as these, then yes, get the dog out of your bed. The dog has the idea that they are in charge and must show everyone he/she is the Alpha by making all the decisions. However, if you are getting a new pup, I would not advise it at all. Here’s the problem with that: when folks bring a new pup home, they want to shower it with so much affection, love, attention by holding it, stroking it, giving it toys, special treats and so on. The pup with its instincts immediately begins to realize that they in fact must be the Alpha of the pack! Once the pup settles into its new normal and begins to relax with the new sounds, smells, and surroundings, then you will begin to witness many of the problems I noted above. So, in essence it is not a good idea to allow your dog to sleep with you.